The other day following sex with my wife, I suddenly had the realization that I was now in a femdom marriage. Honestly, I couldn’t have been more thrilled.
Outside of the bedroom, our marriage is quite traditional. We make most decisions together, and I lead in most aspects of the relationship. The major exception to this is in the bedroom.
First of all, my wife loves to see me in men’s thong underwear. She thinks I look incredibly sexy in a thong and prefers that I wear thongs all of the time. On the other hand, my wife prefers to choose her underwear based on practicality and comfort, and doesn’t much care for the feel of a thong. So in our relationship, I’m the one who wears sexy underwear.
However, the major way our marriage has femdom characteristics is how we incorporate male chastity. My wife also prefers that I wear a chastity cage all the time, even when we have sex. While it started as something fun back when we were dating, mainly as a way to prevent me from masturbating when we weren’t together, now that we’re married she likes me to wear the cage all the time, and even refers to my cock as “her” cock.
When we have sex, it’s all about her. I’ll strip down to my thong (with the chastity cage underneath) and my wife will lay naked in bed. I then focus entirely on her pleasure, worshiping and adoring her body, and eventually bringing her to orgasm by giving her oral sex. After her first orgasm, she usually pushes my head away and begins masturbating in front of me until she’s completely satisfied. During this, I usually hold her, suck her nipples, and gently caress her body. Once she’s had as many orgasms as she desires and is fully satisfied, we cuddle and then go to sleep.
My wife has come to fully embrace this attention she receives in bed, and is now completely comfortable enjoying being selfish about her sexual needs and desires. It’s become accepted that my purpose is to please her in bed and her purpose is to sit back and enjoy it. It’s become expected that my sexual satisfaction is derived from pleasing her, and she doesn’t give a single thought to my sexual gratification. On the contrary, she prefers that I remain in a constant state of being horny and frustrated. This is both so that I’m always ready to please her whenever she desires, and also simply because she likes knowing that I’m always horny for her.
Frankly, I love how selfish she is in bed, and I find it incredibly sexy and hot. When she decides to masturbate in front of me, it’s just about the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen.
After my wife is fully satisfied, I love hearing her tell me all about how satisfied she is, how intense her orgasms were, and how many she had. She loves hearing me tell her how horny I am and how much I love being locked in chastity.
Originally, our plan was that I’d remain locked in chastity until my wife decided that she desired penetrative sex. However, that was about three or four months ago, and she has yet to mention anything about intercourse. Given that she constantly tells me how much she loves our sex as it exists right now, it’s beginning to feel as though I might be locked in permanent chastity. We’ve now agreed that I’d remain locked in chastity for the time being and that the only way I’d be permitted to orgasm is if I ejaculate inside of my chastity cage from how excited I am pleasuring her. This has actually happened before, particularly while holding her when she’s masturbating. She loves that pleasuring her gets me so turned on that it can bring me to orgasm.
I’m thrilled to see how much my wife has embraced male chastity in our sex life. It’s been a wonderful addition to our marriage, and I wouldn’t mind if she never unlocked my chastity cage again.