My wife keeps me locked in permanent male chastity. When we have sex, it’s full of passion and quite amazing. The only thing is that the focus is entirely on her and she’s the only one who achieves orgasm. However, that doesn’t mean that I never orgasm, though I do orgasm much less than she does. The whole point of keeping me locked in chastity is to ensure that I’m always horny and sexually frustrated and always ready to please my wife when she desires attention. She also just likes knowing that I’m always horny. It just makes her happy. However, it would be unrealistic to keep me from ever having an orgasm. It would be likely to happen automatically or accidentally from time to time, and besides, it’s just not healthy to never orgasm. That’s why we have a few options which make it possible for me to have the occasional orgasm while still ensuring that I remain horny and frustrated.
I can sometimes actually get so aroused from pleasuring my wife that it’s enough to bring me to orgasm, even inside of my chastity cage. My wife is totally fine with this as it requires no effort on her part, this type of orgasm still leaves me unsatisfied and frustrated, and she loves that pleasuring her is enough to bring me to the point of climax. She finds it hot that I can get so turned on from bringing pleasure to her that it’s enough to make me cum, even without any stimulation to my penis.
I’ve also orgasmed without my cage on. Recently, on one of the rare occasions when my wife decided to remove my chastity cage, I was fingering her. There was no stimulation to my penis and all of my attention was on her. We were both quite surprised when after several minutes of fingering her, I ejaculated all over myself. It was actually a fairly intense orgasm, though I found myself incredibly horny again by the end of the day. My wife absolutely loved that simply fingering her was enough to make me cum. She finds this so hot that she’s decided that she’s okay with me having an orgasm as long as it’s from getting so aroused from pleasing her, and that it’s without experiencing any stimulation to the penis.
Another great option is to use a remote controlled vibrating butt plug like the one we sometimes use. This one can be controlled from a smartphone app that my wife will use, usually while she’s ready or watching television. This allows her to use minimal effort and to enjoy her book or show. When we do this, I’ll get on all fours in bed next to her and will enjoy the ride. If I feel like I’m approaching orgasm, I’ll let her know in order to give her the option to say yes or no. If she doesn’t want me to cum, she’ll just stop the vibrating until I calm down a bit, or will insist I remove it altogether. But sometimes she lets me cum this way. The great thing about this option is that for me, it’s a ruined orgasm and leaves me feeling horny and unsatisfied, which also leaves me ready to pleasure her if she desires it. Also, she just likes to know that I’m horny and frustrated, so this is a great option if you just need to be mindful of prostate health or just need some relief, but not satisfaction.
The third option which works great for us is rimming. I can actually orgasm inside of my chastity cage from getting aroused from rimming my wife. There’s something about licking her asshole that just puts me over the edge. She’ll sometimes offer this as a reward or a way to allow me some sexual pleasure in between her orgasms. She usually will roll over and put an end to things if I let her know that I’m approaching orgasm, but every once in a while she’ll let me continue and orgasm inside of my chastity cage. While this can be an intense orgasm, it’s ultimately still unsatisfying and leaves me horny again by the end of the day. My wife loves knowing that I climaxed strictly as a result of enjoying her body, and she loves that I’ll be horny soon after.
It’s actually pretty rare that my wife will allow me an orgasm, but it’s great to have options such as these available. Male chastity works so much better when the chaste male is permitted to orgasm from time to time, and a regular orgasm is also good for prostate health. My wife loves knowing that all of these options require minimal (or no) effort on her part and they all leave me unfulfilled enough to be horny and frustrated again a short time after.
I’m sure it’s possible to discover many more options, but these are what we’ve been using regularly and they work fantastic for us. I would imagine they would be a great starting point for any couple practicing male chastity.