My wife and I have been practicing male chastity for quite some time now, and the longer we incorporate it into our marriage and sex life, the more my wife seems to lean into it. Recently, I’ve experienced a wonderful new development.
Until now, my wife held two keys to my chastity cage. She keeps one with her at all times and the other she keeps locked away in a safe which requires a key and a combination to open. I have neither a key nor the combination. We have a third key which until recently was in my possession. I would keep this key locked in a timed lockbox which, in an emergency, I could always break open with a hammer if needed.
I recently handed the third key over to my wife and asked her to hold onto it, thinking it would be a lot of fun if she had total control over all of the keys to my chastity cage, and she readily agreed. I loved the thought of her having this control, and of me being unable to remove the chastity cage in a moment of weakness. This also reinforced the feeling of my wife owning my cock, which is something she loves to remind me of. Honestly, the feeling of her having this amount of control is quite intoxicating, and it seems as though she loves it too.
Yesterday, my wife was heading out for the evening and I asked her if I could hold onto one of the keys in case of an emergency. I was surprised when she didn’t want to relinquish control of the key, instead preferring to continue to hold onto it. I was nervous, but absolutely thrilled at the same time. The idea that she loved having this much control over my (um, her) cock was exciting beyond words. We compromised with her hiding the spare key in a drawer, though I’d need to hunt through the drawer to find it if I wanted to access it. And of course my wife would be fully aware that I accessed it if I went to get it (I didn’t).
This little exchange made me realize just how much my wife has come to love keeping me locked in chastity full time and how much she loves the sense of control that brings her. She loves knowing that I’m always horny and frustrated, and she loves knowing that I’m always locked in chastity. With her holding onto and controlling all of the keys to my chastity cage, it only reinforces her ownership of my cock and ensures that I have absolutely no access to it, even in a moment of weakness.
I absolutely love that my wife has come to love keeping me locked in chastity this much. She seems to love all of the benefits that this provides for her. She gets her sexual needs address whenever she wants without ever having to consider reciprocation. She knows that I’m always horny and ready to please her, but she feels no obligation to please me sexually. She just waits until she’s horny and then prompts me to serve her sexually. And she loves the feeling of owning and controlling my cock, and being able to prevent me from using it for my own sexual pleasure.
Even when we have sex, her denial of my sexual needs increases my pleasure. Not being able to use my cock for my own pleasure, I’m forced to get all of my sexual pleasure from the enjoyment I get from pleasuring her. If I get excited enough while pleasing her that I accidentally ejaculate inside of my chastity cage, it feels wonderful and these days, it’s the only type of climax I wish to have. This is a good thing since it’s the only type of climax she permits me to have. The only exception is if I get so excited from rimming her that I feel like I’m going to cum and if she permits me to do so, though often she’ll simply roll over to put an end to things if she senses I’m getting close.
I’m looking forward to my wife locking up the third key again. I love the feeling of surrendering complete control over to her, and I love her desire to keep me locked in chastity indefinitely.