I’ve been in permanent chastity now for about 8-10 months (I’ve lost count of the exact amount of time). My wife keeps me locked in chastity with her controlling the keys. When we have sex, the focus is entirely on her pleasure, and she often doesn’t even bother touching me during sex, instead preferring to enjoy the attention I give to her followed by her masturbating until she’s completely satisfied.
Recently, my wife and I have agreed that she’s free to completely ignore me in bed except to enjoy my attention. Once she’s satisfied, she often just rolls over and goes to sleep. That said, she still teases me a few times per week. By now, I’ve gone several months without an orgasm, and I found myself feeling more and more aroused and frustrated while locked in chastity (as she likes it).
I’ve been finding that I’ve been getting aroused enough at times that I felt as though I might orgasm while locked in my chastity cage. In fact, the other evening my wife had to ask me to stop giving her a back massage because she could see how turned on I was getting.
Last week, I discovered that I could have a hands free orgasm while locked in chastity only from using the power of my mind. I’ve had orgasms before from rimming my wife and from using a vibrating butt plug, but last week was quite interesting. I was laying in bed thinking about satisfying my wife as I found myself getting more and more aroused, eventually to the point at which I could tell that I’d have an orgasm, and sure enough, I ejaculated quite a bit of semen inside of my chastity cage. As my wife was asleep and the keys were hidden, I had to keep the cage locked on me. Sure enough, within a short amount of time, I was aroused again.
What does this mean for us? It means that I can offer to my wife that she no longer concern herself with my sexual pleasure at all, and that she should feel free to only be concerned with her own pleasure and satisfaction. Once she orgasms as much as she needs to, she can feel free to roll over and go to sleep. She shouldn’t concern herself with letting me rim her until I have an orgasm, and can instead appropriately restrict this activity. Eventually, I’ll get so aroused and frustrated that I’ll orgasm inside of my cage without having to do anything except to think about how much I love pleasuring my wife.