I see many posts in which men (usually) are asking if women enjoy male chastity. While it’s impossible to give a blanket answer to such a question given that women are not a monolith, I believe that I can offer some insight based on personal experience.
First of all, most women won’t have any interest in male chastity unless they’re already open minded or have a predisposition to kink or femdom. That doesn’t mean that your “vanilla” girlfriend will have no interest in male chastity as it could simply be that it’s not occurred to her to explore this aspect of her sexuality, but you need to be aware of your audience. If by the time you’re far enough along in your relationship to even bring up male chastity you’ve not explored any aspects of kink with your partner, I’m afraid to say that it’s basically a crapshoot as to whether your partner will be into it.
I’ve had several relationships in which male chastity would most likely have been well received if I had known about it at the time. In one, we openly discussed not having an orgasm until a specified time, and on one occasion when I came too early and without permission, my girlfriend got angry. I’m certain that given all of the other sexual experimentation in that relationship, she would have jumped at the chance to lock up my cock in a chastity cage.
In another relationship, I brought up the idea of me not having an orgasm for an extended period of time, bringing my girlfriend to orgasm whenever she desired it, and her teasing me mercilessly. When I brought this up, she grew visibly aroused and asked me not to cum for several months. Again, a chastity cage would have been a great addition to our relationship if either of us had known about it.
Fast forward to today in my marriage, and my wife loves keeping me locked in chastity. I originally brought it up as a way to keep me from masturbating when we were away from one another when we were still dating, and it’s continued into our marriage. I’m now kept locked in chastity for weeks at a time. Our agreement is that I remain locked in chastity until my wife desires penetration and only then may I use my cock for any sexual purpose. Basically, it’s only to be used if it’s bringing her pleasure and is not to be used solely for my pleasure.
When we have sex, the focus is entirely on my wife’s pleasure, and after I bring her to orgasm by giving her oral sex, she usually masturbates to give herself several additional orgasms. She makes no attempt to reciprocate and she only concerns herself with her own pleasure.
My wife has mentioned several times how much she loves keeping me locked in chastity, and how much she loves knowing that I’m always horny for her and ready to pleasure her whenever she desires. While it took a little time to get used to it, she now loves that she’s free to be totally selfish in bed. She loves being able to lay back and enjoy the attention and to then feel free to roll over and go to sleep after she cums. She seems to enjoy keeping me locked up and receiving oral sex so much that I’m even wondering if she’ll ever choose to unlock me for penetrative sex.
After a while, I tend to grow so aroused from being locked in chastity that I get excited enough while pleasuring her that it’s enough to cause me to have a ruined orgasm inside of my chastity cage. My wife seems to love this. While she doesn’t seem too pleased about it causing me to be slightly less aroused for a short time following a ruined orgasm, she seems happy to know that it’s still a relatively short period of time until I’m horny again.
Every so often, my wife reaches over and grabs my cock through my pants, taking a few moments to feel it while it’s locked away in my chastity cage. She always smiles when she’s reassured that my cock is safely locked away. She’s mentioned multiple times how much she loves that I’m always horny for her and ready to please her, and she often mentions how much she loves how we have sex.
Now that my wife has gotten used to having the freedom to be completely selfish in bed, she seems to absolutely love male chastity. She always has a glow about her, she’s more affectionate, and she seems incredibly relaxed and happy.
Seeing how much my wife has taken to male chastity, and seeing how much my ex-girlfriends have enjoyed playing around with versions of it, my experience has been that many women enjoy male chastity to some degree. I’d guess that most aren’t into any sort of extreme femdom or cuckoldry, but I’d guess that most are at least willing to incorporate into their relationships to some degree. And there are probably more than you might think who would be willing to hold the key for their partner and to enforce male chastity for a prolonged period of time.