This is a question I’ve been ruminating over for some time now. My wife keeps me locked in a chastity cage 24/7 and I’ve fantasized about being locked in chastity permanently. However, that brings up questions about prostate health, tolerating the ongoing longterm sexual frustration, and other things. However, recent events have given me more clarity on the matter. First, I’ll answer the question in the title of this post by saying that other than unlocking your partner for cleaning, there’s no reason why you can’t keep your partner locked in chastity indefinitely.
Now for some background. My wife and I have been practicing male chastity for several years and we love it. We don’t do it all the time, but we do it quite often. When I’m locked in chastity, my wife still allows me to be unlocked for visits to the doctor or for playing contact sports. Otherwise, I remain locked unless she desires penetration, and that’s the only time I’m permitted to orgasm. Otherwise, our sex consists of me worshiping and adoring her body in bed, culminating in giving her an orgasm via oral sex. She’ll almost always masturbate while I suck her nipples while she gives herself several more orgasms. Once she cums, she’ll either go to sleep or return to whatever it was she was doing. She feels no obligation to reciprocate, and she knows that pleasuring her brings me intense satisfaction and pleasure. She also loves that I’m always horny for her and ready to please her whenever she desires, even if she’s not in the mood, so she likes that I’m always aroused.
Last night as we were about to go to sleep, I found myself touching my wife and eventually found myself fingering her. I could feel her getting wet, and she seemed to be growing aroused. When she laid on her back and spread her legs, I knew that was my cue to give her oral sex, and I gladly obliged. I quickly brought her to orgasm from giving her oral, and she then proceeded to masturbate while I sucked her nipples. She continued, eventually giving herself more orgasms than either of us could count.
I had grown incredibly aroused while I was giving her oral, but when I was holding her in my arms sucking her nipples while she masturbated, I grew so aroused that I could feel some semen exit my body inside of my chastity cage as a ruined orgasm of sorts. I felt some relief from the release of the buildup of semen, but no satisfaction from having had an orgasm. This got me thinking about how long it would be possible to remain locked in chastity for.
Upon waking up again today, I was thoroughly aroused and was glad to still have the chastity cage locked around my cock. I realized that as long as pleasuring my wife turns me on so much as to elicit at least a ruined orgasm, I could theoretically remain locked in chastity indefinitely. Every so often, the frustration would be relieved by having a ruined orgasm when I get so aroused from pleasuring her, and as long as my wife unlocks me regularly to clean my cage, there’s absolutely no reason why I would need to be unlocked except for the aforementioned visits to the doctor or for playing contact sports.
Given the fallacy of the idea of permanent chastity meaning no orgasms..ever, that’s not exactly how it plays out. Eventually, the male locked in “permanent” chastity would experience nocturnal emissions or a ruined orgasm during sexual activity which would relieve the pressure of the buildup of semen as well as relieving some of the frustration of holding it in. The only thing that wouldn’t relieve is the frustration of being unable to use one’s penis for sexual activity or being unable to achieve a proper orgasm with explosive power.
However, this isn’t necessarily an issue. I personally love being unable to use my cock for sexual stimulation and I love being locked in chastity. I love the feeling that accompanies the pent up sexual frustration, especially when I see how sexually satisfied my wife is. It’s a huge turn-on, and I’m glad that she keeps me locked in chastity. The sex is absolutely amazing. I love how aroused I can get just from pleasuring her, and it actually takes very little to get me turned on now. Even just touching her body is a huge turn-on, and when I’m giving her oral sex and she’s approaching orgasm, I can feel the excitement too, which keeps me even more in tune with her body.
I can tell that my wife loves the constant attention and the amazing orgasms. She doesn’t seem to even want penetrative sex anymore and seems to love having as many orgasms as she can handle. She loves that I’m always horny and ready to please her, and she seems to love the idea of my cock always being locked up.
So it seems that at least from our perspective, there’s no reason why I can’t remain locked in chastity permanently, but that’s not for me to decide.