You and your partner have decided to give male chastity a try, you’ve measured yourself for your new chastity cage, your new device has arrived and you’re now wondering to yourself, “how the heck am I going to get this cock cage around my penis?”. This post will give you some pointers on how to get started.
Step One: Separate the Penis Cage from the Ring
After you’ve separated the penis cage from the ring, you’ll begin by putting on the cock ring part of the chastity device. I prefer to put on my chastity cage in the shower for reasons you’ll see in a minute.
Helpful hint: Shave your genital area before putting on your cock cage. You can also do this in the shower. This will make putting on and wearing your chastity device much easier and more comfortable.
I like to apply a healthy dose of either body lotion or conditioner to my genitals at this time, which will also make putting on the chastity device much easier.
Now it’s time to really get down to business.
Step Two: Slide the Cock Ring Part of Your Chastity Cage
You’ll put on the ring one testicle at a time. Slide some skin through the ring, pull through to the other side, and then VERY gently nudge your testicle through the cock ring.
Now slide the other testicle through the ring using the same method. You should now have both testicles through the cock ring, but your penis will be on the other side.
Step Three: Slide Your Penis Through the Cock Ring
You may need to “manhandle” your penis slightly to get it through the cock ring, but even if it’s slowly starting to grow erect, you should still be able to get it through. Once it’s through the ring, your cock ring should be resting snugly in place, surrounding the entire scrotum and penis. The cock ring should run all the way around from the top of the penis (where it connects with the body) all the way around the bottom of the scrotum.
Pull the cock ring up and the scrotum and penis down until you feel a firm fit. It’s perfectly normal at this point to be fighting an erection, and you may need to wait a bit until it subsides before you can put on the rest of your new chastity cage.
Step Three: Put Your Cock Cage in Place
Once your erection subsides, tuck the head of your penis as deep as you can into the cock cage with the connecting apparatus facing the direction of where it connects to your cock cage.
As you move your cock cage closer to the cock ring, you should try to tuck as much of your penis into it as you move it closer to the cock ring.
If you have trouble squeezing your penis into the penis part of your chastity device, try applying some more conditioner or body lotion to make it a bit more slippery and thus, easier to get on.
As soon as you have most of your penis squeezed into your penis cage, VERY carefully bring it into place to be locked. This could involve connecting a round hole on the top of the cage with a small bar on the front of the cock ring to make way for a padlock, or finding the interconnecting pieces into which you’ll fit an internal lock, as is the case with the Ternence Chastity Cage I prefer to wear.
Step Four: Lock Your Chastity Device
This is the fun part. If your chastity cage uses a padlock, hold the cock cage and cock ring together with one hand while you snap the padlock shut with the other hand. If you use a chastity device with an internal lock, you’ll do the exact same thing except you’ll insert the internal lock with the attached key, turn the key to lock it in place, and then remove the key.
Step Five: Rinse Your Chastity Cage Thoroughly
To prevent residue from building up, rinse your male chastity cage thoroughly with the shower water to remove as much of the conditioner and/or body lotion as possible.
Don’t be surprised if you feel an erection attempting to push through. Enjoy and savor the feeling. One of the most pleasurable moments of male chastity is when you feel your cock locked in a chastity device for the first time (or any time), and you feel the head of your penis pushing against the inside front of your penis cage for the first time. The frustration is absolutely delicious!
Step Six: Dry Your Chastity Device
Once you step out of the shower, use a towel to thoroughly dry your chastity cage and surrounding areas. You may also choose to let it air dry for a few minutes. I will often use this time to shave or brush my teeth in order to let it dry a bit further.
Step Seven: Apply Some Lube to Your Chastity Cage
This is the time when I like to use some Aquaphor to the area, particularly focusing on wherever the cock ring meets my skin. I also apply the Aquaphor around any part of the scrotum the cock ring might come in contact with. This ensures that as the cock cage and cock ring move around over the course of the day and night, the chastity device moves freely and easily without chafing. If I’m wearing my chastity cage for days or weeks at a time, I generally apply Aquaphor twice per day.
Step Eight: Put on Your Favorite Thong and Enjoy!
This is when I’ll usually put on my favorite thong underwear and settle into the bliss of male chastity!
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