My wife allows me to remove my stainless steel chastity cage for specific circumstances such as full contact sports, visiting the doctor, and travel. At all other times, the cage remains locked around my private parts. I was recently wondering if the cage was even necessary given that I do have it off for specific periods of time without succumbing to temptation. I’ll explore here why I see wearing my chastity cage as being absolutely necessary.
Preventing Masturbation
I’ll admit that when the chastity cage is off, I’m tempted to masturbate, and I’ve even done so on a few occasions, though not to completion. However, the temptation was so great that it would have been quite easy to get carried away and touch myself for long enough to do the unthinkable (climax). My wife doesn’t want me to experience any orgasms and I’ve agreed to that. I plan to honor that commitment to her. With the chastity cage locked on my body, I can’t “accidentally” masturbate and betray my promise.
Clarifying Our Roles in the Bedroom
With the chastity cage locked on my genitals and the keys securely locked away, it’s just too much trouble to retrieve the keys to unlock it, and doing so would require planning ahead. With me wearing the chastity cage during intimacy, my wife is very happy to receive oral sex from me and to masturbate on her own until she’s satisfied. She’s not tempted to remove the cage, though she certainly will unlock it if she truly desires the use of her cock. Having me locked in chastity during intimacy makes it clear that my role is to satisfy her needs and desires and that there’s no expectation of her reciprocating.
Symbolic of My Commitment to Her
The main reason for wearing my chastity cage is that it’s symbolic of my commitment to my wife to put her sexual needs and gratification ahead of my own, and of my willingness to give up my ability to orgasm for her so that I’m always aroused and ready to please her. She does allow me to orgasm sometimes, but only if it’s as a result of getting so excited from pleasuring her that it causes me to accidentally ejaculate inside of my chastity cage. She finds that acceptable because it’s from pleasing her. She’ll also sometimes allow me to orgasm from the excitement I get from rimming her. She loves that licking her asshole somehow puts me over the edge. Most of the time, she’ll roll over to prevent me from climaxing if she senses that I’m getting close, but she’ll sometimes allow me to orgasm if it’s been a while, provided that she’s fully satisfied.
All of that said, my wife loves that I’m willing to wear the chastity cage for extended periods of time and we both love what it represents. Theoretically, we could practice male chastity without me wearing a chastity cage and I could just use my willpower. However, this wouldn’t be feasibly over an extended period of time as the temptation would just be too great. Also, without the cage on, it would be much easier for me to accidentally climax while pleasuring her. In fact, just a few weeks ago, she had unlocked my cage while I was fingering her to orgasm. As my wife approached her orgasm, I shot out a huge load without any stimulation to my genitals simply because I was so aroused. Wearing the chastity cage minimizes the chance of this happening.
Summary
I wear my chastity cage because I love the constant reminder of my promise to my wife as well as a deterrent in case I’m tempted. My wife loves knowing that I’m wearing it precisely because of my commitment to her and her wish for me to be denied any orgasms. The cage is like a second wedding band and I have no desire to remove it, and neither does my wife.