The more I practice male chastity with my wife, and the longer the lockup period becomes, the more I begin to think about what it would be like to be locked in permanent chastity. When I fantasize about it, it seems incredibly appealing. I love the idea of being unable to access my cock for stimulation, of watching my wife have many amazing orgasms, and of always being left sexually frustrated and tormented. Would it drive me wild with desire, or just wild? Would it even be possible? What would it look like?
No Orgasms Ever?
Would permanent chastity really mean no orgasms ever? Likely not. During the course of a regular lockup, I will often drip some cum inside of my chastity cage when I’m giving my wife oral sex. Especially as she’s approaching orgasm, I can often feel the discharge leak out. It’s definitely not an “orgasm” per se, but it does give some sense of relief from the steady buildup of cum inside of me. I happen to love that this discharge isn’t accompanied by the intense rush of an orgasm as I prefer to be left unsatisfied and thus ready to continue satisfying my wife sexually. I love that only she gets to experience the thrill of an intense orgasm and that I’m to be continually denied. I also love that the small feeling of relief from this discharge of fluid accompanies me bringing her pleasure. It’s as if pleasuring her brings me so much pleasure that my body responds with this “ruined orgasm”.
Also, permanent chastity doesn’t have to mean no orgasms ever. I could imagine a world in which orgasms are allowed while wearing the chastity cage, but only from being pegged or from using a vibrating butt plug. Right now, my wife prefers that I alert her when I’m getting close to orgasm if we’re playing with our vibrating butt plug so that she has time to turn of the vibration remotely to prevent me from having an orgasm, but I would imagine that in a permanent chastity arrangement, the keyholder might allow the partner in chastity to enjoy an orgasm from this every once in a while. If my wife told me that this was the only way I’d be allowed to orgasm from now on, I wouldn’t protest. And in the case of a same sex relationship, it would seem to me to make perfect sense to allow the partner in chastity to orgasm if it’s from receiving anal sex. After all, why should the keyholder have to stop just because the chaste partner is approaching orgasm? I think it makes perfect sense to continue the fucking until the partner on top is done, regardless of what’s going on with the bottom. If I were the partner on bottom, I’d want my partner to keep plowing me until he was fully satisfied even if it meant me ejaculating within my chastity cage.
Prostate Health
Prostate health needn’t be an issue if the partner in chastity is having regular discharge or semen. If the other partner also takes time to milk them or to allow for orgasms as mentioned previously, then this needn’t be a concern.
Cleanliness
Of course, the chastity cage would have to be removed regularly for cleanings, but that only takes a few minutes. It’s up to each couple to decide if this should be supervised and how much trust to allow the chaste partner.
My Fantasy
At the moment, I’m not permitted to orgasm unless it’s from my wife having requested intercourse. In fact, I’m not permitted to use my cock for any sexual pleasure except from intercourse. My cock belongs to my wife, and only she is allowed to use it for pleasure.
I remain locked in chastity and my wife has orgasms whenever and however she likes. However, I’m forbidden from having an orgasm except for when she requests intercourse. It turns out that my wife is so satisfied from her orgasms she receives from me giving her oral sex combined with her masturbation that I can’t even remember the last time we have intercourse. I do sometimes leak semen when I’m licking her pussy, and the other day I even had to remove my butt plug while licking her pussy for fear that I might cum. And when I’m being penetrated with our remote controlled vibrating butt plug, I need to let her know if I’m getting close to orgasm so that she can turn it off in time to prevent me from climaxing.
Our sex is frequent and wonderful. My wife lays back while I worship and adore her body, culminating in licking her pussy until she cums. She will usually then masturbate until she cums several more times, and then will roll over and go to sleep. I love bringing her such pleasure, and I love how selfishly she enjoys it without a care in the world about my sexual needs. As much as I love when she teases me through my chastity cage following her orgasms, I really love it when she completely ignores my needs and just kisses me and drifts off to sleep. Few things in this world turn me on more than my wife being completely self centered and selfish in bed, and the more she completely ignores me sexually the more aroused I get, especially when contrasted with seeing her experience such intense pleasure as multiple orgasms in a row.
I’d love for our current practice of male chastity to continue exactly as it is, but for the chastity cage to remain locked on my cock permanently. The only orgasms I’d be allowed to experience would be either the little dribbles of semen when I’m licking her pussy or if she decides to allow me to experience the vibrating butt plug long enough to bring about an orgasm inside of my chastity cage.
I’d say that I get hard thinking about all of this, but the stainless steel chastity cage locked around my cock prevents any and all erections.