It’s now been several months since I handed the keys to my chastity cage to my wife. Our agreement was that she’d unlock me when she desired penetration and that would be the only circumstance under which it would be acceptable for me to have an orgasm. Otherwise, I’d remain locked in chastity and only my wife would experience orgasms. That was back in the fall of 2022 and it’s now spring of 2023. She unlocked my cage for penetration once, and instructed me to stop before I orgasm. I’ve had a few orgasms, but none from stimulation to my genitals. The day she unlocked me for penetration, I actually had an orgasm from fingering my wife. As she grew more and more aroused, so did I, and eventually I ejaculated without anything even touching my penis. I also had a tiny prostate orgasm caused by a butt plug inside of me, and another time I ejaculated inside of my chastity cage from getting too excited while rimming my wife (she gave permission).
At this point, it’s beginning to seem as though I may be locked in chastity long term, and perhaps permanently. The longer I’m locked in chastity, the more my wife seems to love it. She loves always being completely sexually satisfied and she loves that anytime she feels horny, all she needs to do is say the word (or give a hint) and I’m ready to please her. She also loves the feeling of owning my cock, and knowing that my chastity cage is always locked on “her” cock, leaving me unable to use it for my own pleasure. And she especially loves knowing that I’m always horny and frustrated, especially while she’s so satisfied.
I’m finding that even though this is the longest I’ve ever been locked in chastity, I really love it. I love that my wife wants to keep me horny all the time and I love the constant frustration. There’s something incredibly erotic and intimate about willingly giving up your ability to freely orgasm in order to always be ready to pleasure your partner. And there’s something really hot about allowing your partner to have total control over something as intimate as your orgasms. I’m not sure why, but I find it incredibly hot and arousing that my wife wants to prevent me from having orgasms, and that at the same time, she feels so free to be completely selfish in bed, even going so far as to masturbate right in front of me until she’s fully satisfied. I love making this sacrifice for her, especially since it brings her such pleasure. I love that while some of her pleasure is the physical pleasure she gets from me satisfying her sexually, but I also love that some of it is the pleasure she gets from having the ability to control my orgasms simply because she can.
The chastity cage is actually quite comfortable, and is beginning to feel like a second wedding ring. I love waking up in the middle of the night and feeling it locked around my cock, and I love feeling it preventing me from getting erect. I especially love how comfortable my wife had gotten simply leaving me locked in chastity. She doesn’t even offer to unlock it once she’s been satisfied in bed. It’s now a given that her pleasure is the sole focus of our intimacy, and we both love that for different reasons.
At this point, I can’t imagine having sex any other way. Our sex life has been quite amazing, and I love seeing the glow on my wife’s face all the time from having so many orgasms. I’d be quite fine if she never unlocked my chastity cage again.