There’s no shortage of stories and accounts of couples engaging in cuckoldry as a complement to practicing male chastity. So much so that the two seem to go hand in hand. However, not every couple has an interest in introducing a cuckold relationship into their lives. Or, while both partners may have an interest in the cuckold lifestyle, they may not be ready or even willing to jump in with both feet, or they may prefer to keep cuckoldry simply as a fantasy.
In this post, I’ll offer several options for how you can flirt with the cuckold lifestyle. Why might you want to do this? First, it can give you an idea as to whether introducing cuckoldry into your relationship is right for you, but by doing so in a way that won’t have a negative impact on your bond. Second, you may find that trying a lite version of the cuckold lifestyle gives you everything you need to satisfy your curiosity and to add some spice to your male chastity lifestyle.
How Do Couples Cuckold?
In its most basic form, cuckoldry is when one partner (usually the female keyholder) will take on a lover or lovers outside of the relationship with the consent of the male in chastity, who will usually find the situation incredibly erotic and arousing. This can take the form of the female having a regular lover or “bull” and her coming home to her locked partner for him to satisfy her orally. Some couples will also introduce an element of humiliation in the form of the female telling the male that he’s not worthy of having intercourse with her, or even going so far as to fully feminize him for further humiliation.
Obviously, the cuckold lifestyle isn’t for all couples. It requires a strong sense of security in the relationship, and of course it also requires two willing participants who are open to cuckoldry. While my wife and I do practice male chastity most of the time, we don’t have any plans to introduce the cuckold lifestyle into our relationship. However, I’ve been with women in the past with whom we’ve discussed scenarios related to cuckolding, though we didn’t play them out. That said, I believe that acting out some of these scenarios could be an excellent way for couples to experiment with how to cuckold in a non-threatening way in order to see if it enhances their relationship.
Scenario One
Go out for the evening as a couple with the male still locked in chastity and with the female keyholder dressed extremely provocative and sexy. Throughout the evening, the keyholder should tell her man exactly what she thinks about the various other guys she sees, letting him know which ones she finds hot, and telling him exactly what she’d like to do with them. She should be extremely explicit with lots of detail, and she should push the barriers of what seems appropriate to share with her partner. The idea here is to make her chaste male feel a little bit embarrassed, slightly humiliated, and somewhat jealous. But only enough to arouse both partners through the sexual tension.
Scenario Two
The female keyholder tells her man locked in chastity that she’s going out for the evening to meet up with a guy she met, and she doesn’t know when she’ll be getting back. She should use her imagination to tell her all about this fictitious guy as she enlists her cuckold’s help in choosing which sexy outfit to wear, all the way down to the sexy lingerie she wears under her clothes. She should go out of her way to linger in her undergarments for her cuckold to see, with the intent to get him aroused and jealous.
When she heads out, in reality, she’ll be going out to visit with some of her girlfriends, but her cuckold’s imagination will be racing and will be playing games with his mind. He’ll be imagining her getting undressed with another man, and thinking of her taking another man’s cock inside of her. When she returns home, she’ll tell her cuckold all about her evening, sharing with him every single imaginary detail as she slowly gets undressed before him. The last thing she does is to instruct her cuckold to give her oral until she cums as a way of tucking her into bed.
Scenario Three
If the female keyholder has a gay male friend, invite him over to your home for the evening. She should dress very sexy and provocative. Throughout the evening, she should flirt heavily with him in an extremely and overtly sexual way, perhaps even inviting him to feel her up. I’ve seen many gay men have fun flirting with straight women like this, though it’s certainly on a case by case basis, so this will be heavily dependent upon the female keyholder’s relationship with her male friend. The safety in this is that for the gay male friend, this will likely not be something that could threaten the relationship with the cucked male, but would put him out of his comfort zone just enough to have the sensation of his wife/girlfriend being physical with another man.
Scenario Four
Go out for the evening as a couple, but with the female keyholder dressed extremely provocative and sexy, and perhaps even a little bit slutty. Of course, her man will still be locked in his chastity cage. Arrive at a social setting such as a bar, and proceed to split up with the chaste male taking a seat somewhere with a good view. The female keyholder should then proceed to mingle and flirt with as many men as she can. She should dance with them suggestively and allow them to grope her as her chaste male looks on.
Summary
Introducing cuckolding into a relationship is a huge step and is not for everyone. The ideas presented here are a way to give it a try within your male chastity lifestyle to see if it’s a good fit for your relationship, but without the risk. If you wish to explore how to cuckold more, continue to introduce more elements until you’ve found the right balance for both partners.