For any couple who practice male chastity, one of the most important aspects of orgasm denial is ensuring that the partner in chastity is constantly horny, almost to the point of being constantly sexually frustrated. This tension is one of the things that makes male chastity so erotic, intimate, and enticing for the locked partner. It can be all of these things for the key holder as well, but for very different reasons.
Personally, I love feeling the chastity cage around my cock all the time, and I especially love when the head of my cock makes contact with the inside end of the cage as that’s a constant reminder of the denial of my orgasm and even of my ability to get an erection. This type of long term orgasm denial may sound like torture for those to whom male chastity doesn’t appeal, but I find it thoroughly intoxicating. It’s a constant reminder of my promise to my wife that I wouldn’t orgasm unless under very specific circumstances as outlined by our chastity contract. This feeling makes me feel closer to her, more intimate, and the constant tension of not being able to orgasm creates a constant high.
My wife loves that I voluntarily save myself for her and that I willingly give up my ability to orgasm in favor of always being aroused so that I’m ready to satisfy her whenever she desires. She loves knowing that I’m always wearing my chastity cage under my thong and my agreement to the denial of my orgasm. It’s like a second wedding ring, and it’s our little secret.
While it’s incredibly fun to wear a chastity cage all the time, the practice of male chastity and long term orgasm denial is even more interesting and intense when accompanied by some complementary activities that enhance the experience for both parties. These activities mostly involve various forms of teasing, and they keep things interesting for the locked male as well as ramping up the sexual tension.
In this post, we’ll look at some fun games and activities for male chastity.
Dressing Sexy and Seductively
When practicing long term orgasm denial, the locked partner should be kept constantly aroused. One way to do this is for the keyholder to dress sexy and seductively around him. In fact, you don’t even need to engage in any overt sexual activity to have a huge impact. Just walking around your home in a sexy lace thong, or wearing your favorite tight mini-skirt will get your man in chastity excited enough to drive him crazy.
Teasing and Edging Out of the Cage
This is an extremely fun (and frustrating) one. Simply unlock the chastity cage and remove the cage part. Removing the cock ring part of the chastity cage is optional. The locked male’s cock will likely become fully erect within about a minute as it will be extremely sensitive from having been locked up and denied stimulation.
Once unlocked, either gently caress the shaft with the fingertips, or even offer a VERY mild blow job. Never enough to get him too aroused, but just enough to drive him nuts. This will be profoundly intense and frustrating, especially once you decide to stop. And remember, it should always be the keyholder who calls the shots. Once the keyholder sees that the locked male is getting too excited, the activity can be discontinued immediately or simply ramped down.
If you’re missing penetration, have your partner lay down on his back while you sit on top of him and ease his throbbing cock inside of you, moving it very slowly in and out of you. This will drive him crazy and will allow you to make good use of his erection. Once you see that he’s getting too aroused, lift yourself off of his cock and then wait for his erection to subside. Then lock him back up and have him give you oral until you cum. This will be fun for the keyholder, and will be a strong reminder to the locked partner in chastity of the continuing denial or his orgasm.
Tease Him While He’s Locked in His Chastity Cage
My wife does this to me all the time. It drives me crazy, but it sure feels amazing! Without removing the chastity cage, gently caress and tickle the balls and the general area around the testicles. Don’t forget to gently massage the area around the anus, as long term orgasm denial will make other areas even more sensitive.
It’s incredibly arousing, though extremely frustrating. Just this alone can bring some men close to orgasm, but almost never to the point of orgasm. This is a great way to keep any male in chastity constantly aroused. Also, if you want to bring him a little bit of pleasure, but don’t want to go through the effort to remove his chastity cage, particularly if it’s just prior to or just after he’s gone down on you, this is a great way to keep him aroused.
Make Him Wear a Butt Plug
This is a great option for teasing your partner locked in a chastity cage. If you’re not in the mood to fool around, or you just want to have him thinking of you all day, why not make him wear a butt plug all day? It’ll be sure to keep him constantly aroused and thinking of you while he’s locked in his male chastity cage. And don’t forget to grab his butt when you can to remind him of the butt plug.
Use a Vibrating Prostate Massager
This is one of my favorite ways of being teased, and my wife loves it too. We discovered this one after I had given my wife an incredibly satisfying orgasm. In fact, it was so satisfying that she didn’t feel the need for any oral sex nearly a whole week later! On the other hand, I had been locked in my chastity cage the whole time and was beginning to crave some fun. I asked if she’d mind if I used the remote control vibrating prostate massager we had bought several years ago, and she agreed. However, she really wanted to read and didn’t want to be actively involved, so here’s what we did.
I lubed up the prostate massager and inserted it into my ass. My Daniel Alexander DA515 Thong did a great job of holding it in place. I handed my wife the remote control and she turned it on before diving into her book. As she read her book, I was on all fours next to her on the bed with the prostate massager vibrating inside of my asshole. Whenever my wife would turn a page or just happen to think of it, she’d change the setting on the massager. As I grew more and more aroused, I could feel my cock pushing up against my chastity cage. The added humiliation of seeing her engrossed in her book while I was getting so aroused turned me on beyond my imagination. When I felt like I might be getting close to orgasm, I let her know, and she slowed down the massager to prevent my climax.
This activity was arousing beyond my wildest expectations, and I believe it will become a regular activity for us, especially since my wife can often find herself quite satisfied for as long as 5-6 days after a good orgasm. Playing with the prostate massager is a fun way to let me have some fun while locked in a chastity cage while still adhering to strict orgasm denial. I wouldn’t want her to discontinue the activity, so I’m certainly not going to allow myself to “accidentally” climax.
Summary
These are just a few ways to tease, excite, and perhaps torment your partner while they’re locked in their chastity cage for long term orgasm denial. Keeping the arousal and excitement going is a large part of the fun when implementing male chastity and I’d encourage you to get as creative as possible. Enjoy!
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