Sexual Humiliation and Male Chastity

One of the things I love most about male chastity is the constant undercurrent of sexual humiliation. There’s the feeling of humiliation of having a chastity cage locked around my genitals and the sexual humiliation of not being able to orgasm, but I do find that sometimes I crave even more overt sexual humiliation. Enter the vibrating butt plug.

What is a Butt Plug Used For?

A butt plug is used by either a man or a woman by inserting it into the user’s anus to stimulate the anal nerve endings for greater sexual stimulation. In another post, we go into depth discussing how to use a butt plug. We first began using a butt plug to add a little extra intensity to my sexual experience, and to make it easier for me to orgasm (before we made male chastity a regular thing for us). Just feeling the butt plug sitting inside of my anus is incredibly arousing, and adds a lot of intensity to the sexual experience.

Some couples also use a butt plug to add a bit of sexual humiliation to their experience. For some, being ordered to wear a butt plug, especially in public, is incredibly arousing. The feeling of humiliation is intoxicating, and the partner who gives the order often experiences a thrill from the sense of power.

Others enjoy using a butt plug with a tail attached. The wear experiences an intense feeling of humiliation from both the feeling of the butt plug inside of them, and also from the feeling of the tail sticking out of their asshole, bumping against their legs.

For couples who enjoy anal sex, a butt plug can also be used to stretch the asshole to prepare for anal penetration.

Vibrating Butt Plug and Sexual Humiliation

My wife and I have a standard butt plug and a remote control vibrating butt plug that we sometimes have used in the past. However, we’ve recently discovered an amazing way to integrate the vibrating butt plug into our male chastity lifestyle.

As I mentioned in a previous post, I’m not allowed to orgasm unless it’s from the arousal I get from giving my wife analingus. She loves that I can get so aroused from adoring her body that it can bring me to orgasm, and I love the feeling of humiliation that comes along with having my orgasms restricted in such a way. Also, we don’t engage in sexual activity unless it’s because my wife is in the mood, so this can often leave me locked in my chastity cage for quite some time before we engage in intimacy. Generally, my wife enjoys receiving oral from me about twice per week or so, but sometimes after a particularly intense orgasm, she may not be in the mood for up to a week, which can leave me craving sexual activity. Even though I realize that the activity won’t lead to my orgasm, I still love being intimate and sexual. Last week, we discovered a solution for when she’s still satisfied from her last orgasm and is not in the mood.

Last week, I went to initiate intimacy with my wife. She had been very stressed from work, so I suggested that she lay down and let me give her oral so she could relax a bit, but she simply wasn’t in the mood. I must admit that I also wanted to give her oral because I was craving sexual activity. I was extremely horny and I wanted to play. So I proposed an idea and she agreed.

I brought out my remote control vibrating butt plug and some lube. When my wife came to bed to settle down with her book, we lubed up the butt plug and inserted it into my ass. I then handed her the remote control for the butt plug.

My wife then settled into her book and switched on the vibrating butt plug. As soon as I felt it vibrating inside my ass, I let out a moan and began to gyrate my hips as I got on all fours next to her in the bed. For the next 20 minutes or so, she was thoroughly engrossed in her book except for when she’d change the vibration setting of the butt plug, and I sat next to her in a state of bliss enjoying the vibration in my ass.

I alternated between all fours and kneeling back on my legs, eyes closed and hips constantly moving. The entire time, my wife was reading her book, completely uninvolved except to change the setting on my vibrating butt plug when she turned her pages. 

In addition to the feeling of intense arousal, I must admit that I absolutely loved the feeling of sexual humiliation as I realized that this was now the only option I had for masturbation, and I couldn’t even use it for any type of release. When I told my wife that I was approaching orgasm and asked if it was okay to allow myself to climax, she simply responded “Please don’t”, and then quickly switched off the vibration. 

I can’t remember the last time I felt so vulnerable, humiliated, and sexually aroused. The whole experience was incredibly fun, erotic, and arousing, yet completely unsatisfying at the same time. Secretly, even though I really did want to cum, I was delighted when I heard the two words “please don’t” come out of my wife’s mouth. I wanted to continue being denied, and I wanted to show her that I craved the denial, especially for her benefit. I wanted her to know that even though I was grateful to her for letting me have my fun, I also wanted to express that gratitude by showing her how much I wished to have my orgasm denied. I wanted her to know that her pleasure was so important to me that I was willing to submit myself to such an intense feeling of sexual humiliation in order to simply experience just a little bit of fun.

Summary

For us, our vibrating butt plug is now an extension of our male chastity lifestyle. It’s a way that I can have a little bit of pleasure and teasing during stretches when my wife isn’t in the mood, and I love the opportunity to prove to her my commitment to being denied my orgasms by putting myself in this exposed situation with a vibrating butt plug inserted into my asshole in a blissful state of sexual humiliation.