Using a Butt Plug to Enhance Your Chastity Experience
I’ve been a huge fan of butt plugs for quite some time, regardless of whether it’s associated with male chastity. After an extended butt plug hiatus, my wife and I began using butt plugs again in the bedroom and it’s been fantastic! In this post, we’ll look at how to use a butt plug to enhance your male chastity experience.
What is a Butt Plug Used For?
A male butt plug is typically used to stimulate the nerve ending in the anus, which can be extremely sensitive for both men and women. For men, the butt plug can also serve to stimulate the prostate, thus bringing about a heightened sense of stimulation. This is also an incredibly erotic feeling, and can also be extremely helpful for men experiencing erectile dysfunction as the butt plug can bring about enough additional stimulation to help a men with ED be able to ejaculate more easily.
Another way to use butt plugs is to gently stretch out the anus in preparation for anal sex. This can apply equally to both men and women.
A butt plug can be used in chastity as an additional means of stimulation for the locked partner. Whenever I’m locked in chastity, a vibrating butt plug is my only available means of masturbation, and sometimes, my only meaningful means of stimulation. My wife and I like it like this as it forces me to put my focus on her. I know that I won’t be receiving any stimulation to my genitals and certainly not any orgasm, the only enjoyment I’m able to get from sex is my enjoyment of pleasing my wife. Generally if I’m locked in chastity, she simply doesn’t unlock me, so my cock receives no stimulation at all, aside from some light caressing of the testicles once or twice per week. That’s where the butt plug play comes in.
Here’s how we use a butt plug for chastity. Realizing that I need at least some play, my wife will allow me to insert a vibrating remote controlled butt plug in my ass as long as she can control it. She’ll usually just read a book or watch videos on her phone while I’m gyrating away with the butt vibrating inside my anus, but it still feels amazing, and my wife loves that all she needs to do is push a button on a remote with each page turn of her book and I’m happy as a clam.
Types of Butt Plugs
Not all butt plugs are created equal…but they’re all wonderful!
The most basic type of butt plug is usually made from some sort of plastic or silicone, and can sometimes be made from metal. It will be slightly flared in the body to help it stay in the butt, and the end will usually have two little extended flaps that rest on the outside of the anus between the butt cheeks. These will help to prevent it from getting stuck in the anus when wearing a butt plug, and will make it easier to remove.
A popular type of plug for BDSM play is the locked butt plug. These are usually made of metal and can open up like a flower once inside the asshole. Once the locking butt plug is opened enough to prevent removal, the user will turn the butt plug lock to secure it into place so the wearer is unable to remove it.
The remote controlled vibrating butt plug is my absolute favorite. Once inserted, the remote control can be handed over to another party and they can control when to turn the vibrations on and off and switch between different vibration and pulsing patterns.
A pony tail butt plug is another favorite, though I have yet to try one. It’s a standard butt plug, but with a soft tail attached to the end. When the user wears it, it gives the impression that the wearer has an animal tail. It’s cute, charming, and a bit humiliating, but in a wonderful way.
Inserting a Butt Plug
Once you’ve purchased your new butt plug and have washed it thoroughly, you’ll need to insert it, which is the first step in figuring out how to use the butt plug. In my experience, no matter how much you’ve used butt plugs before, you’ll need to prepare your butt with a little massage to the anus and generous amounts of lube.
I love when I play with the vibrating butt plug with my wife as I’m usually the one to massage and lube my anus, which adds to the humiliation factor.
Once you’re able to stick your finger up your anus comfortably, lube up the whole butt plug generously and gently push the tip against your anus. Gently make small pushing movements to get your anus ready to receive the butt plug. You could try twisting the butt plug slightly too. Just be sure not to try to shove the butt plug into your ass as it will only cause pain. Just take your time and use baby steps. Once it begins to go in, you’ll know, and you’ll be able to insert it all the way into your anus.
Once you get the butt plug fully into your anus, take a moment to savor and enjoy. Few things are more enjoyable than an anus full of butt plug!
Wearing a Butt Plug
Here’s where it gets really fun. There’s no right or wrong way to do it. You can simply wear the butt plug during intimacy to enhance the experience, or you can explore other options.
If you want to get a bit risque, you can wear the butt plug all day, even at work, or while out running errands. This can be a little secret you and your partner have together. If you’re wondering how long you can wear a butt plug, this is a great way to find out. In all seriousness, I wouldn’t go so long that you interfere with any bodily functions, and I’d be careful to avoid any activities that might be dangerous while wearing a butt plug.
Another way to play is to wear the butt plug in preparation for sex and then reveal it to your partner once you both get naked.
If you’re like me and you’re using your butt plug while locked in chastity, it can be a power play. For us, it’s the only way I’m allowed to get sexual stimulation and pleasure while locked in chastity, so it forces me to savor every aspect of the experience. We use the vibrating butt plug to further enhance the male chastity experience. My wife knows that I can’t orgasm from the butt plug, but that I love the vibrating a lot, so it’s a safe way for her to allow me a little bit of pleasure. The vibrating butt plug makes it easy for us to play, even if she’s not in the mood.
Using a locking butt plug can be a fun way to extend and enhance BDSM play. It can be done in public, or one partner can simply lock the other partner with the locked butt plug inside of them and leave them be until deciding to unlock them.
And a pony tail butt plug is a really fun one. You can watch your partner walk around your home while wearing it, or for some really intense fun (and humiliation), bring your partner to a club and have them wear it in front of others. Of course, you’ll need to bring them to a BDSM friendly club and not to high tea at the Plaza, so please use discretion.
Cleaning Your Butt Plug
Whatever you do, please remember to thoroughly clean your butt plug after every use! You should use some disinfectant cleaner and very warm (or hot) water. Rinse it off thoroughly and get it full of soap suds, then let it soak in warm soapy water for at least ten or twenty minutes. After this time, give it another cleaning and thorough rinse.
As one can imagine, a butt plug comes into contact with a lot of germs and bacteria. If you want to continue to have a lot of fun butt plug play, it’s important to dedicate some time to maintenance of your toys.
Summary
I absolutely love butt plugs. They stimulate a ton of nerve endings that can’t be reached otherwise, and it’s a safe way to experiment with anal play. Also, a butt plug feels incredibly erotic and sexy when sitting inside the anus. There are a seemingly infinite variety of butt plugs, most for a very reasonable price. Hopefully, this post will give you some ideas to get started, but remember that the real fun begins when you begin to use your own imagination. Have fun!
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